Love to be Nice ~ Ascended Master El Morya’s Weekly Message for:

August 27 – September 03, 2013 ~ via Julie Miller
Posted: 27 Aug 2013 10:03 PM PDT

Being nice is a natural part of who you are and it is not very hard to be nice to others and have other people reciprocate that niceness. But if you are honest dear ones with your whole self you will accept and admit that your ability to be nice can always receive a little polishing. Smiling is a great way of increasing the awareness of others that you are indeed a nice person and when you are writing or speaking through your telephone smiling then even though it cannot be visibly seen can be felt. When you are sincerely nice to others, you open the door for nice to come to you – you attract the energy you emit and it is really easy dear ones and being nice will bring more happiness than not being nice.

A smiling happy face is a joy to see over one that is displaying miserableness and anger. When give another person a smile, even those that you pass by walking by they just might smile back as smiling is wonderfully contagious. The more you smile to others, the bigger the increase you will feel to be nice in other areas. It is okay to engage is small light conversation with new people. When you step beyond your comfort zone to be nice to people and open up a little you are able to shine your own beautiful light and see they too have a beautiful light. Saying hello with a sincere smile is a wonderful way to make a new friend and it builds confidence and provides an overall feeling of satisfaction. Being nice is good.

Remember dear ones being nice is not a sign of weakness but it does speak beautiful volumes of great inner personal strength and determination. Many dear souls find it embarrassing to be openly nice to others in public or to display sadness. These dear souls feel others will judge them for being weak if they are found crying, or if they are nice to someone they feel that this person and others will try to take advantage of them. There are many dear souls that fear being nice and gentle to others because they think they will be viewed as being weak and showing any kind of emotion is also thought as a weakness.

It is sad when we see these kinds of fears in many dear souls across this fine global earthly home. But seriously dear ones, these kinds of fears even though they are real for these dear souls are based entirely on misunderstandings fed by their ego. Displaying emotions such as sadness or being kind is not a sign of weakness but of strength. It takes great personal inner strength to open your heart to others instead of always being in fear of rejection. In addition, it takes great personal power to admit to your feelings and to allow them to come to the surface and release them. Tears are a release dear ones, you know this and through the tears a renewal of strength comes through along with clarity and understanding.

When you are being sincerely nice to others, you are demonstrating that you know who you are and you value what you know and take this knowledge as comfort. Being comfortable in your own skin is good and wonderful and through this inner comfort that you feel, you find you are confident with yourself and you want to be nice and find being nice feels good. It is more than possible dear ones to always choose a more opened heart way to live and to be. Through this way the compassionate, kind and gentle side of your nature is exposed and your love that is pure and unconditional dissolves the fears that the ego has tried to instill.

Being kind to yourself and to others is more than a strength it is also personal power. When you realize you have this personal inner strength, you take great comfort knowing it’s okay to cry when something has caused you sadness without the worry of what others are thinking. When others respond with criticism and harsh judgements they are really in truth speaking of themselves and of their own weaknesses. Remember where weakness comes from; weakness is a result of refusing to take responsibility for knowing the significance of your self-worth. No one else is responsible for what you feel and do but you.

Don’t be afraid to be gentle and kind to yourself and others, don’t worry about what others will think; be confident about who you are and allow your own genuine love be the comfort that will wash away all fears that will give room for your inner strength to rise to the surface and take charge. When you dig for that beautiful inner strength and bring it to the surface you are taking away other people’s misconceived authority to judge you. Know who you are and let this inner knowing guide you to ways of being nice to others and to being equally nice to yourself.

Learn to connect to your own inner authority, to your own inner power and let this power show you the way to dissolve your fears and overcome obstacles that may have kept you away from displaying genuine kindness and sincerity. Your inner power will help show you the way to define your true authentic self and through this exploration you will come to know what your self-worth is and truly see the strength of being kind and loving to others.

Being kind and nice is one of the easiest ways for you to create change for yourself and for others. You can easily bring niceness into your workplace and by doing this you add a little extra sunshine to your workday. You will always find yourself face-to-face with those that don’t find being nice and kind in the workplace or anywhere else is appropriate. Continue being the loving and compassionate person you are because being nice and kind is a natural part of who you are. It’s how you share your love with others, through your gestures and thoughtfulness. When you are being sincerely nice and kind to others, the love you have for yourself and for others is no match against the ones who may feel compelled to judge you for being nice.

Give yourself more credit dear ones for the good work you do in all areas of your life. Provide time for yourself to relax and discover new ways to enjoy life where you can still be nice and kind to yourself and to the many people you may meet… you never know when you will make a new friend.

And so it is…

I AM Ascended Master, El Morya through Julie Miller