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Unconditional love, which contains no judgment, should be the foundation upon which your relationship is built.
You can't love another fully if you don't love yourself.
Expectations are relationship enders.
When we expect our lover to do this or that and they don't, we get mad and disappointed. The relationship then suffers because of it.
Another relationship ender is needing someone.
We should not look to the other to fill a void in ourselves. Rather, in a process of mutual sharing, we should bring, as best as possible, a completed sense of self to our partner.

As soon as we need the other, it is an admission that we are lacking in our own wholeness. It can also become an obsession, which throws the relationship out of balance.
Never need. It limits and suffocates.
Always be yourself. Never pretend. If one or the other partner finds this difficult, then an imperfection is in need of balancing and healing.
Do not believe that falling in love will make you happy and end your loneliness.
As best as possible, try to find happiness, balance, and wholeness within yourself. Then, share this inner completion and happiness with the other.
Jealousy and competition have no place in a relationship. If it is present, something is out of balance within the individual and needs to be brought to the surface and healed.
Total freedom, not limitation and restraint, is the key to successful relationships so long as each partner acts responsibly in doing so.
Sexuality can be as passionate as it can be sacred.
Never let a relationship cause you to lose your identity or sense of self. Relationships should empower, since they help to remind us who we really are.
If you do not see one another as two souls on a sacred journey, the partnership can still be a rewarding and useful one. However, the profoundness and meaning of the union is not as deep and unifying as it can be.